We have spent a lot of time and attention discussing the merits of being
active. No one will disagree that being
active is better than being inactive.
(Any couch potatoes out there who disagree?). So the question becomes “Should we, and if
so, when should we, start children on a skill development program?” The argument is that if a child is more
skilled at something than they are more likely to do it and make a habit of it. So how do we find out what skill or activity
at which the child excels physically, cognitively, and emotionally?
Think of all the different activities out there. How many team sports are
there available to children? How many individual sports? How many
non-competitive activities? How many activities where the child can just run,
and jump, and play….you know, be a kid.
One way that is fast becoming extinct is for parents to play with their
children rather than shuffling them off to the “next activity”. I am amazed at how many parents drop the kids
off somewhere as they do their errands, shopping, etc. After soccer, it’s off to karate, or
baseball, or basketball, the list goes on.
The United Nations High Commission for Human Rights states that every
child has the right to play (Ginsberg, 2007) .When a parent plays with their
child, the child develops creativity, imagination, dexterity, and physical,
cognitive, and emotional strength. Play time helps enhance the academic setting
by attending to social and emotional needs. Undirected play allows a child to
learn to share, communicate, and resolve conflicts while too much “adult
organized” activity causes a loss of creativity, and loss leadership and group
skills (Ginsberg, 2007). Adult directed
activity places undue burdens and expectations on many children who may not be
able to live up to their parents wishes.
When a parent plays with a child, they can see where the child excels or
has no interest or skill without extensive genetic, physical, or cognitive
tests. Simple “playtime” may be the best
answer for determining in what activities children should participate.
In a 2009
New York Times article (Parker-Pope, 2009), it is suggested that 15 minutes of
recess improved classroom behavior and is as important as the directed
academics. The article goes on to state
that the Journal of School Health reported that children involved in physical
activity during gym class performed better on tests than their sedentary
counterparts. The solution - let them
play and use their imaginations; let them join in on a pick up game of any
sport; throw a ball or a Frisbee with them.
Please, just let kids be kids as it will help them academically.
Ginsberg,
K. (2007) The
importance of play in promoting healthy child development and maintaining
strong parent-child bonds. Pediatrics
116(1), 182-191.
Parker-Pope, T. (2009). The 4 r's? A fourth is crucial, too: Recess. The New York Times, February 24, 2009. Retrieved from http://www.nytimes.com/2009/02/24/health/24well.html?_r=1&scp=1&sq=recess&st=cse on April 17, 2009.
